More Than Words: Arab Body Language

by Anisa Benmoktar on July 2, 2009

Body language is extremely meaningful in Arab culture and differs greatly from Western expression. The way an Arab moves, signals or gestures can enforce or clarify a message in a way that means more than words. In Arab culture, it really ain’t just what you say, but also the way that you say it.

Although bodily expression is largely universal throughout the Arabic countries, certain gestures, particularly insults, can vary in intensity depending on the circumstances and geography. As such, it’s highly recommended that non-Arabs don’t use any gestures indicating obscenities or insults, as incorrect or inappropriate usage can cause offense.

In case you’ve ever wondered, here is the lowdown on the most commonly used body language in the Arab culture:

Eye Contact

Eye contact during Arab meetings and discussions is considered important to show that both parties are interested and engaged in what the other is saying.

Staring isn’t considered rude, unless it takes place in public with members of the opposite sex. Gazing at women is a definite no-no.

Contemplation

Arabs hold their chin with the thumb side of the right fist to indicate they’re thinking about something, as this gesture is believed to be a sign of wisdom and maturity.

Calling

To put your right hand out, with your palm face down and bring your fingers towards yourself down (almost like a clawing motion) means “come here” in Arab culture.

No

When Arabs quickly tip their heads upwards and click their tongue, they mean “no”, “probably not” or simply “I don’t believe you.”

I’m on it!

Placing the right hand or right forefinger on the tip of the nose, right lower eyelid, or moustache or beard literally means “I see it”, “it’s ahead of me”, or “I’m going to accomplish it.”

Chill!

If you’ve ever found yourself in the crowded streets of an Arab city, you may well have seen locals holding their right hand in a sort of pear shape with the fingers pointing to their waists and moving their hand up and down. It’s basically body code for “be careful”, or “slow down” and is often used to warn taxi drivers who are going too fast or pedestrians about to cross the street.

Thank you

If you see an Arab close their eyes, place the palm of the right hand on the chest and bow their head slightly, they are simply saying “thank you”.

I don’t believe you

A half closed hand turning slightly in front of the stomach, means the person to whom the gesture is made is believed to be lying.

You mean nothing to me

It’s considered rude in Arab culture to show the soles of the feet while sitting down: and is literally interpreted as meaning “you are beneath my feet.” It’s much more polite to sit with your soles on the ground or facing towards yourself.

You’re a &%/?!!!

Putting the tips of the left fingers and thumb together so that the hand faces right, then placing the tip of the right forefinger directly onto the fingertips of the left hand is a direct insult to an Arab’s birth and lineage.

I’m not impressed…

Using the right fist to hit the open palm of the left hand signifies contempt.

Mixed messages

1) Placing the right forefinger sideways into the mouth and biting it can mean two things: either an apology or a threat, depending of course on context.

2) Watch out with the “A-ok” sign in Arab countries, – if it is made and shaken in another person’s direction it symbolizes the evil eye, and is typically used to curse the person to whom the gesture is being made!

Is there something we’ve missed? Know a thing or two about Arab body language you’d like to share? Tell us!

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